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Leadership consists not in degrees of technique but in traits of character; it requires moral rather than athletic or intellectual effort, and it imposes on both leader and follower alike the burdens of self-restraint.
~ Lewis H. Lapham
The boss drives his men; the leader coaches them.
The boss depends upon authority; the leader on good will.
The boss inspires fear; the leader inspires enthusiasm.
The boss says “I”; the leader “we.”
The boss fixes the blame for the breakdown;
The leader fixes the breakdown.
The boss says “go”; the leader says “let’s go!”
~ Gordon Selfridge
There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge.
Acquisition of Thought Power by Moral Purity.
A man who speaks the truth and has moral purity has always powerful thoughts. One who has controlled anger by long practice has tremendous thought power.
If a Yogi whose thought is very powerful speaks one word, it will produce tremendous impression on the minds of others.
Virtues like truthfulness, earnestness and industry are the best sources of mental power.Purity leads to wisdom and immortality. Purity is of two kinds, internal or mental and external or physical.
Mental purity is more important. Physical purity is also needed. With the establishment of internal mental purity, cheerfulness of mind, one-pointed mind, conquest of Indriyas and fitness for the realization of the Self are obtained.
~ Sri Swami Sivananda, Thought Power
Modifying Employee Behavior
Essentially, it is difficult (if not impossible) to change the behavior of some employees. Generally speaking, the only way you can hope to modify or change someone’s behavior is by:
- Making them aware of their behavior;
- Advising them of the impact of their behavior on others;
- Creating an environment which requires the person to change, and providing them with the skills/training needed to modify their behavior;
- Clearly defining the expected changes and reinforcing the changes in behavior when they are observed;
- Confronting the employee each time the employee responds inappropriately. Over time they may realize that you will no longer tolerate their inappropriate behavior;
- Clearly defining the consequences for failure to change and invoking the consequences if they fail to change;
- Documenting your interview(s).
To communicate your required behavioral changes, a six part message format can be used. It is designed to get the employees attention, to focus on their behavior, and inform them of the consequences for failure to change.
- Describe their behavior.
- Describe how their behavior affects the group.
- Describe how their behavior affects the coworker who is the recipient of their behavior (if appropriate).
- Describe how you feel about their behavior.
- Describe your future performance expectations.
- Describe the sanctions for failure to change.
And of course, DOCUMENT the conversation and have the employee agree on the behavior changes.
~ This is an excerpt from Working With Difficult Employee Problems, a Mastering Leadership Skills seminar.
R – E – A – L SUCCESS
I believe that to succeed, a person needs only four things. You can remember them by thinking of the word REAL.
Relationships: The greatest skill needed for success is the ability to get along with other people. It impacts every aspect of a person’s life. Your relationships make you or break you.
Equipping: One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned in life is that those closest to you determine the level of your success. If your dreams are great, you achieve them only with a team.
Attitude: People’s attitudes determine how they approach life say-to-day. Your attitude, more than your aptitude, will determine your altitude.
Leadership: Everything Rises and falls on leadership. If you desire to “lift the lid” on your personal effectiveness, the only way to do it is to increase your leadership skills.
If you dedicated yourself to growing in these four areas, then it doesn’t matter what kind of work you do. You will become successful.
~ John C. Maxwell, Leadership Principles for Graduates